The title of this post seems to (unintentionally) play into the narrative of the “confrontational hyper aggressive trans person” and I’m sure you’re already very aware of how these types of headlines fuel trans phobia and anti trans violence. The title suggests that the person was pushy because of their gender identity. Your actual story is a vulnerable and heart felt exploration of navigating romantic boundaries and attraction as a trans person. Again, putting it plainly friend, the person you encountered was a toxic human being and your title suggests that it was because they are (a bad) trans person which is validated by your inclusion of the fact that you are (a good) trans person. I mean absolutely no disrespect, the post asked excellent questions and is very well written.